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| Sun, 11-16-2003 - 1:02am |
MM and I have a more emotional and less physical kind of A. I can't deal with the guilt that follows any physical involvement. He's tried telling me that he feels he should go to a prostitute to get his needs met. LOL! His wife is beautiful and more than willing to have sex with him. Now we're going on day 3 of him giving me the cold shoulder and acting like I've hurt him deeply because I won't do more than hug. If I wanted to argue with someone, I'd start a conversation with my DH about money. :-) MM and I have been involved for about a year. I guess I'm still involved because we have had some great times together. We laugh and flirt and talk about our problems when there's no one else who will listen. I read somewhere that women give sex to get love and men give love to get sex. Maybe he's run out of patience with me not holding up my end of the "bargain". (I've never promised that I would ever have sex with him.) I don't know.... feeling confused. Maybe it's time to say goodbye.

Last night we sat there for 20 minutes not saying a word to each other after he told me I don't care about him because I won't fool around. Then he wouldn't get out of my car. I actually started the car and drove to the supermarket, ran in and got the few things I needed. I drove him back to his car, still in silence. Then he asked for a hug. I gave him one and wound up pinned like a wrestler. I got out from under him after a bit of wrestling on my part and him laughing at how strong I am. His W called his cell to ask him where he was. He gave me a few very unreturned kisses. Finally I told him to get out. His response? "OK. Call me tomorrow." This is not a kid I'm dealing with. He's almost 20 years older than me and a respected, professional man. The older man is the one I'm in love with. This immature adolescent that he becomes is a real turn off. I know I should end it for good, but I also know that I probably won't. ????? Part of me is waiting to fall out of love with him so completely that I have no trouble walking away.
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlmyaffair&msg=33704.1&ctx=128
The link finally! :-)
Edited 11/16/2003 1:50:10 PM ET by opal_fire