Getting Antsy

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Getting Antsy
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Thu, 01-08-2004 - 12:48pm
Well, I just don't know what to think at this point. Haven't heard from MM at all this week yet, I expected he would back at his job.

After we went thru 8-1/2 weeks NC (his choice) this fall, now I am always worried when I don't hear from him, that he's changed his mind again about seeing me.

I'm not fooling myself about love or anything, but I do have fond feelings for him and would really miss him if that's the case.

Also, if he does this to me again (NC for a long time), should I take him back? I'm giving him til beginning of next week to contact me, but if I don't hear from him til after then, then what?? Any suggestions?? Could use some advice!! Thanks.

Dusty

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 2:59pm
exactly nmr -- dusty, none of us is perfect, honey! live and learn. AND enjoy a good book and a cosmo!

gurl

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 3:16pm
I agree! It has to be happy hour somewhere! The bar is opened! I'll have a Stolirazz Cosmo and Cheers to Dusty:):) NMR
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Registered: 01-04-2004
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 3:18pm
hang in there dusty, i chickened out today going to the office, did my work by fax instead, still no word, lol. now its gonna be a hot bath, a facial and a glass of wine. rofl, hope he doesnt show up when im covered in avocado/oatmeal!
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 3:33pm
I think I'll have a glass of wine when I get home to relax and think things over. About what I expect and what kind of treatment I'm willing to accept. I deserve better than I'm getting, you're all right. I have to get him out of my mind!!

Thanks everyone for being so sweet and supportive to me, I really appreciate it right now!!

Dusty
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 3:43pm
I see he's just gone online now. I'm not going to email himn, I'm not going to email him, no I'm not. Or I will slap myself!!
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Registered: 04-24-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 3:47pm
do it for us both dusty... we are kinda in the same both. again down to one text message a week, if that, and practically 4 weeks of NC earlier in dec.. this is hell, i know, but today sent a letter telling him i am starting some difficult courses this month and really can't deal with this. If he wants this, he can meet me when I am back in NL in march. I gave the time, place and date, and if he is a no show, and NC till then, this is over..


You have all been so inspiring, gurl, nmr, and dusty, keep up all the pep talks everything you say goes in and has been staying this passed month more than ever before.. thanks

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 3:49pm
if you do it you had better slap yourself twice because I can't make it to your location fast enough. BE STRONG! He's just a man:) NMR
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 3:53pm
You are so right. And I know he's just waiting there for me to be the first one to say Hi. Well I'm not going to. I'm feeling a little stronger now, he can see how it feels to wait and hear nothing!!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 3:55pm
Good for you! Walk to the coffee shop or something to get away from your computer. Hell, I'm going to have a smoke for you and I haven't smoked is days! NMR
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 3:58pm
Thanks, light one for me too!! But make it an extra light please.
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