Getting Antsy

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Getting Antsy
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Thu, 01-08-2004 - 12:48pm
Well, I just don't know what to think at this point. Haven't heard from MM at all this week yet, I expected he would back at his job.

After we went thru 8-1/2 weeks NC (his choice) this fall, now I am always worried when I don't hear from him, that he's changed his mind again about seeing me.

I'm not fooling myself about love or anything, but I do have fond feelings for him and would really miss him if that's the case.

Also, if he does this to me again (NC for a long time), should I take him back? I'm giving him til beginning of next week to contact me, but if I don't hear from him til after then, then what?? Any suggestions?? Could use some advice!! Thanks.

Dusty

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:00pm
Ok! Great now I'm smoking twice as much! LOL NMR
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:02pm
I even told MM I quit smoking because he didn't like it. So the days I'm supposed to see him, I don't smoke in the morning before work!!
xxxx
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Registered: 01-04-2004
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:02pm
oh hell slap me too...i just emailed. must have been the wine.
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:03pm
Okay here's your slap. But hand me a glass of wine and that cigarette, I really need them right now!!
xxxx
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Registered: 01-04-2004
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:09pm
its good to be able laugh at times like this! probably keeps us sane. wine? what wine? ohhhh you mean that empty bottle!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:16pm
oh the games we play with ourselves!! DON'T DO IT!! get offline, take MM off your buddy list, whatever. do something else, but stay away from that "send" button!!

lmao on nmr's "he's just a man" but it's soooo true! MM is NOT god!

gurl

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:17pm
what's the point of "extra light" -- heck, you might as well drink more wine dusty!!

gurl

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:20pm
OMG - now i'm gonna have to find you and slap you silly!! don't change for a man, what the HE$$, he's NOT changing one thing for you!

quit smoking for yourself, never for a MAN!!

gurl




Edited 2/17/2004 9:32:55 PM ET by gurlfriend50
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:21pm
I'm glad I only have about 15 min's more of work to get thru with resisting the temptation!! He does that alot, waits til about my last half hour and then wants to talk. Well, it ain't going to happen today girlfriends!!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: dustyrose2
Thu, 01-08-2004 - 4:22pm
there you go! strength in numbers, dusty!

isn't it happy hour somewhere?

gurl