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| Sat, 12-06-2008 - 2:24pm |
Hi everyone! I'm just looking for some gift suggestions for new AP. He and I have been "together" for just a little over a month. He is VERY sweet, very attentive and initiates contact frequently, yet he is still kinda macho and "bad ass"(but in a sexy way).
I wasn't planning on doing the gift thing but he insists. I asked him to give me a few ideas but I don't want a gift to be so predictable. I like to surprise a little. So does anyone have any ideas that will go unnoticed by his W? We are both M. I know cologne is an easy one but I wasn't really looking for something so easy. We do not know each other real well other than sexually. I thought about a toy(adult) or a gift card to a toyshop but I just don't know!!
Any suggestions would be great!
Thanks
LM

I would not give toys or gift cards to toys store because if he does get it, he will have to use it with his W......I am struggling with the same problem of what to give. He gave me a very nice gift last year and we were just colleagues at that point. I wanted to give him tickets to a concert, and let him decide who he would take: me or his W, but after todays talk when he told me that after being not as busy at work, they are trying to go out and spend more time together. I really want to give him soemthing that will bring out memories only about me....if you get good ideas, please share
I'm bumping this in hopes that more people might reply and share some ideas. I looked through old posts but people were not real specific as to what they bought!!
Any ideas...?
I am also having issues coming up with a gift that means alot. And yet it has to be something he can explain to his W. I hope you guys have some suggestions.
Homemade CD's are good with a printed label of course. They can be easily from a friend or co-worker.
Here are few simple gift ideas I have used or will be using.
I guess I'm really lucky because there really are no rules in gift giving for us.
last year i gave "whateva you wanna call him" a leather bi fold(he uses it til this day..i think that's sweet)/and an economy pack of hand warmers (these are all things he can keep in his business truck) ...he is a business man but works out in the cold in the winter time....but we were just starting out and were more of good friends at that time....this year for his bday me and "whateva you wanna call him" weren't doing so well but, my DS gave him a really nice gift..financed by me of course...for xmas..i don't know i was thinking nice watch because he's a businessman...i noticed he doesn't wear a watch..or an expensive bottle of scotch/whisky but, i've given him
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
Thanks for all the great ideas!! I have come up with something that I am looking forward to giving him. I was going to give him a really nice pen that he could use at work. I'm not sure if he has an office at his job or not, but I know he has to do some writing, but I decided against it.
I went with a fancy silver jump drive and had his name engraved on it. I am going to load it with some naughty things for him. I HOPE that he will be able to explain it away as a gift from work. If not, I will be a little bummed, but I guess that is a risk you take with gift giving. I've also decided on a "toy" that he has mentioned wanting at least 3 different times as well as one other private thing that we discussed. I like the whiskey idea that tyger mentioned but I think I will save that for another time. I just hope he can get away with the jump drive without his W noticing.
Anyhow, thanks again for the ideas!