girls so sad unhappy help me please

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Registered: 04-15-2003
girls so sad unhappy help me please
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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 7:47pm
girls sorry so tried of being strong and being so unhappy l do know very love by my family and my closet friend but feel so lonely.all l want to be married and have family of my own never happen for me.never be with my mm only man l really wnat to be with .
kimmy
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 08-24-2003 - 2:08am
Hey Kimmy,

Don't say never!! I know it seems like you have been waiting and waiting, but you don't know what is around the bend.

No one can always be strong and happy - just don't get in the habit of being sad. Think positive! - you've probably heard of looking in the mirror every day and telling yourself what a good/beautiful person you are...well, look in the mirror every day (several times a day) and tell yourself you will meet a great guy - believe it! If you really believe in it, you'll feel better - and be happier. And, being happy is more attractive than being sad (not saying you are unattractive, lol - I know you aren't - but you'll attract better by being happy).

Now, get out there and do some flirting! Even harmless flirting (like that dish at the spa - have you been back there, lol?) will cheer you up and have you feeling better.

Hope you are feeling more yourself soon.

Hugs,

Meow

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Registered: 03-29-2003
Sun, 08-24-2003 - 8:04am
I'm sorry:( It is hard isn't it?

You want to be married but he

already is:( You've been with

him for a long time. Does he

know how you feel? I don't know

what to suggest or say to help.

Hang in there! ~passion
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 08-24-2003 - 10:01am
hi passion hugs sweetie thanks you have help me just being here for me helps me. and yes my special friends know how l really feel but l now never can ber together beside his W being so sick my fmaily never be happy about this about me and mm being together.even l do know he would be so good to me and love me to. hugs kimmy
kimmy
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Registered: 03-29-2003
Sun, 08-24-2003 - 10:10am
Hey Kimmy:) You never know what'll happen next.

With every second that passes, things change.

And it changes quick! Believe me I know! So you

never know, one day you and your MM might be

together. Hugs, ~passion