girls why did my my mm do this help me

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Registered: 12-04-2003
girls why did my my mm do this help me
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Wed, 12-31-2003 - 8:43pm
still upset what special friend did to me.i do understand what going on with him and his very sick W .but hing is girls if he only care and love me like a daughter he should kept his hands off me.why he was loving me and touching me all these years. you don't love you daughter like that.been feeling so bad about myself so sad and lonely.my X-SG abuseing me tell girls that rigth he was abuseing me.i have ever right to come here post if you don't like i have say or what lm posting don't read my post.my special friend was here year ago on years holiday with me he was so loving sweet to me.no one here knows my life what goes on but me..yes my ex-mm is reading e-mails e-mailing me back to so no lm not at all stalking m him.he one who has kept coming back to me.


Edited 1/1/2004 2:11:54 PM ET by peache_kim
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Thu, 01-01-2004 - 1:22pm
Kim, nobody knows the mind of your OM--only him. Maybe he was drunk, maybe he was horny, who knows? The only thing you can do now is to move on. Going over & over & over it in your mind is useless--and almost a sickness for you, I think. You don't have the answers you want, nobody here has the answers you want and probably Tony doesn't either. Trying to backtrack with a former OM is also non-productive. Get out of your rut, get going and stop obsessing with the past--it is just that, the past, and the only way to get over it is to get active, perhaps get some counseling, get out and live life. Good luck, Lily
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Thu, 01-01-2004 - 1:23pm
Kim in trying to understand what you typed I have a question. You speak of your 2nd xmm reading all these emails you have sent him. Has he ever responded back to you? Are you stalking him? What gives here, you need to look for love without these guys as part of the equation. Its past the time when this should have been put to bed and forgotten. Do you have ANYONE outside of the internet that you can talk too? You need to seek counsiling with a professional, who can help you move on. You sound depressed and lonely and that is not good. Look for help, please!

T

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Thu, 01-01-2004 - 3:38pm
Sorry if I am being a pain in the ass, but there are many like Kimmy who come back under different names and keep posting modified versions of their posts. I can't decide who is worse, them or her. I feel sorry for Kimmy that I don't feel for the other offending person(s). Edited to add that some of them don't seem like they are in any kind of affair or something...


Edited 1/1/2004 3:43:45 PM ET by julietsfate
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Thu, 01-01-2004 - 4:12pm
hi juliet big hugs to you i do know what me and special friend share so does he.but he cna't handle all his guilted rigth now about me.if this man truly love me like a daughter he should never shown he love me like that.like said he was here last year with me he very loving sweet to me why you are when love someone.also having really bad pms right now doesn't help me ugg i hated having this every month.i know should workouting out again not get shape im very good shape but egt more enery feel so lazy.have to work on friday. hugs to you sweetie thanks for being for me. kimmy
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Thu, 01-01-2004 - 4:42pm
Kimmy, I don't hate you or anything, but you need help. I can tell you need depression help and right away. It may or may not have anything to do with your thyroid condition. About PMS, I do have PMS symptoms but they are not all that really bad. I just get a little moody, that's all. If you are having severe PMS symptoms there must be some help for you, please consult your doctor.

About MM - it doesn't matter what he told or not - he doesn't need you right now and you need to realize that. You cannot go after a man that does not reciprocate your feelings and call it an affair. Let him go - you can find another man in your age group and find happiness with him. Let it go, Kimmy. Its the best for you.

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Registered: 08-12-2003
Sat, 01-03-2004 - 10:42pm
mdsmom2, I think its the same Kimmy. I know her style of writing.

kimmy, if all these affairs are very painful to you, please end it!

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Registered: 09-19-2003
Sat, 01-03-2004 - 11:19pm
The sad part is that the one affair ended like 25 years ago and the other like 5. Enough is enough, someome needs to get a life and move on. That is if they even did happen. I am really starting to question them at all.