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| Tue, 12-02-2003 - 11:19am |
First let me start by saying, I'm so glad I found this site! The last 6 months of my life has been a total whirlwind and I literally can't discuss it with any of my friends or family! I don't even really know what to say. I've always thought people having affairs were nasty, cheap, disgusting people and now here I am. I have a child and a husband who would do anything for me, but something's missing - enters MM. He's the greatest. We've known each other through business for 2 years, but have actually started an outside relationship in the last 6 months. The really weird thing is that we haven't even had sex yet (2 hours apart and schedules are hell to coordinate)- strictly emotional, but it is wonderful. We talk 4-5 days a week, 4-5 x day, emails, text message, buys me gifts, etc.
I need to know how to keep the emotions intact. The main thing is I KNOW he is not going to leave his wife and kids - too much to lose financially. I'm feeling like a teenager again and absolutely don't know what to do. I'm willing to risk everything, but do I share my deepest feelings NOW or will that freak him out.
I feel like I'm making no sense in this message, I'm just so confused, because I'm head over heels for this guy - he says he is to; really no time for us to get together, both married - I'M GOING CRAZY! Anyway, thanks for letting me vent.

Edited 3/10/2004 4:52 pm ET ET by geek_chic
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Hi nelleg and welcome to the board,
I always say that no one understands us unless they can walk in our shoes... and while you will never walk in anyone else's shoes... you've started to walk the same path and you can certainly understand how much hold an EMA can have over you.
You know he is not going to leave his wife... then I suggest that's where you start... getting your own emotions and feelings in control.
Sweet
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