Going Back?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2008
Going Back?
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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 10:31am

I posted this on AAS and didn't get a response - I could really use some advice on this please...


Hi all!

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Registered: 04-05-2007
In reply to: trtlehi
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 12:49pm

If he goes back to his wife just because he has no place to stay - rather than trying to get along with your roommate for a little while - then he never really wanted to leave her anyway. If this situation is going to make you worry about him going back to her, what about when the two of you have fights or aren't getting along for whatever reason (and that happens to everyone - it's life) - will that make you worry too?

It doesn't sound like you're very secure in your relationship with him. You should talk to him about the way you feel, and see if he can reassure you. If you're going to worry, and he can't reassure you, you have to ask yourself if this is truly the person you want to trust with your future!

Good luck whatever happens. :-)

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Registered: 11-28-2007
In reply to: trtlehi
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 5:07pm

Hi Trtle -


I must (once again - lol) completely agree with Lexi on this one.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 08-08-2008
In reply to: trtlehi
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 6:50pm

Tgrbabe -


I was very glad to get your advice and hear your story.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
In reply to: trtlehi
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 12:37am

Hi

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Registered: 08-08-2008
In reply to: trtlehi
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 11:29am

Well, we had our talk last night and it actually went quite well.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
In reply to: trtlehi
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 2:34pm

Hi Trtle -


So glad the talk went well and laid 'some' of your fears to rest.


Hmmmm, trust - that pesky little word.

lightning in my heart