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| Fri, 11-13-2009 - 9:25am |
Okay this is the part of being with a MM that is really hard...
Last night AP came over for a few hours and left a little late.
| Fri, 11-13-2009 - 9:25am |
Okay this is the part of being with a MM that is really hard...
Last night AP came over for a few hours and left a little late.
I know how you feel. It's hard when something like that
I hope you get in contact with him soon, Alive.
I think this is the part of the As that men start to lose interest in. When actions start to become EXPECTED such as the daily phone calls/texts. I know that my XAP used to like to call various hours and sometimes it wasnt practical to talk every day at the same time. Some days he slept in, some days he was cranky and didnt feel like talking (mine was seperated from W & lived alone so there was no W to avoid) Alive, you need to understand that even if you know his morning habits to the letter, there may be something unforseen pop up that can hinder him from calling you. It may not be about you and to have visions of a D-day from one missed call is setting yourself up for an anxiety panic.
Take it easy and wait. Im sure he has a reasonable explanation.
Good luck.
SB.
Hi all - yes, I did let my imagination run away a little bit and I did here from him a few hours later.
I can so relate...I used to freak out if he didn't return text immediately when I knew he was on his way to or from work. I also used to freak when I would see his wife come home from work at strange hours of the day (imagining she knew and was coming to throw his stuff out onto the curb)...I even had a near heart attack the day after we first had sex, because his wife called me at 9am! She was calling to see if my son could play at their house, but she had never called me before, and I was SURE we were caught...
It's hard not to be jumpy...but try...and I'm glad it all worked out!