Going to the Ending An Affair board, ugh

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Registered: 11-28-2003
Going to the Ending An Affair board, ugh
Fri, 12-12-2003 - 9:05pm
Well, even though I was on this board a very short time, I really did enjoy reading all the posts of support that are out there! A lot of them made me laugh and some made me tear up a little.

I am ending it tonight with my MM. We just got off of the phone and he informed me that he and his wife (who have been having a tremendous amount of problems) had another huge fight last night. I wasn't the cause of the fight, but I did come up. He had always just told her I was just a friend, but last night she pushed and pushed and while he never came out and told her that yes, we had been having an affair for a year and were best friends, he did admit to a little bit more. Part of me is upset that he wasn't more careful, because my husband is still CLUELESS, but oh well. He had to go right then and asked me to call him back, so when I call him back in just a few minutes, that will be it. I know he will be crushed. Whenever I bring up the fact that we need to end things, he always begs me not to and I always end up changing my mind. But for many reasons, this time has to be it. I need to bow out gracefully and allow him to really work on his marriage, if not for his sake, for the sake of the children.

For the few times that I posted, thank you very much for your support!!! I may see you all back here again, but who knows, not anytime soon anyway!

I'm sad, but this needs to happen. Enjoy it while it lasts ladies, we aren't promised forever with these men!

~Serenity