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Mon, 11-17-2003 - 4:30pm

lovely ladies... and gents (whereever you are) :)


Just want to apologies for been a bit scarce around the board of late... I've been sitting exams and have been busy, busy studying in hopes that I will manage to pass.

Sweet
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Tue, 11-18-2003 - 12:01pm
hey sweet -- i'm crossing my fingers over here for you passing your exams and saying a few prayers too, just trying to cover all across the board! and don't worry about this board, liberal been covering it quite well!

and i'm so glad your MM was waiting for you after all that hard work. you deserve a nice reward, not don't ya!

enjoy, enjoy and good luck!

take care,

gurl

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Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:20pm

Hey gurl,


Thanks heaps! I need as many fingers crossed and as many prayers as I can get in hopes that I pass one of my exams... one is not a problem... the other I'm not sure off.


I'm so glad to have Liberal on board... I knew my time would be taken up at this time of the year and I didn't want to be deserting anyone... so I'm so thankful for her help... and all the regs as well.


oh! and I tell you! what a reward I got ;) it was really weird to be coming home to MM... but oh so nice :) now I just have my fingers crossed I get to see him at least once before Christmas and we both take holidays with our families... 3 weeks with no contact! oh lord... help me *lol*


Sweet
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Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:31pm
Hope your exams all turn out well. What are you studying?...or I guess you shouldn't say??!

I'm hoping to get to see MM next week -- it may be our last visit with each other before the holidays too. Let's keep our fingers crossed together!!!

Let us know how your exams turn out.

Charlotte

 

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Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:37pm

Hey charlotte,


I'm studying Accounting... most times I enjoy it... but I've just done an Economics subject and it was just not sinking in.


And trust me... you shall certainly hear about it should it all go well :)

Sweet
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Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:41pm
Yikes, accounting -- math was NEVER my subject. Economics -- another toughie!! Will cross my toes too:) -- for the men AND your exams!!!

 

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Wed, 11-19-2003 - 11:29am
oh sweet, why three weeks with no contact?? can't you manage a phone message here and there on your cellphones?? the physical NC is a bummer, but can't be helped, i guess. and you will be busy with the holiday occasions and all that entails. i know how i am so by the end of the second week, you will start getting antsy and wanting to see MM. and that third week will be a killer! what to do -- just keep busy and have fun with your family! distract yourself any way you can!!

and i bet it was weird to see MM in place of your H there at the house! the few times my MM has come to my house, i always watch him leave to walk to his car and i always say to myself, "this is weird" because it's just feels natural that MM is leaving the house for a few minutes and will be right back and we can continue on with our day together. but i know in my heart-of-hearts that MM is going back to his home with his W so it is a little depressing.

hang in there honey. the exams are over and the holidays are upon us, so relax and enjoy it all!

gurl

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Wed, 11-19-2003 - 11:33pm

Hey gurl,


We usually do not contact each other even with instant messages on our mobile phones... it's just too risky.

Sweet
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Thu, 11-20-2003 - 10:02am
whew, sweet, i would freak if i had to endure 3 weeks of absolutely NC - not even phone calls!! i don't know what to say, except good luck getting through it!

i've never had more than 2 weeks of physically being apart, and not more than 1 day of no phone contact, so i would have major withdrawal/depression if i had to go through the time period you and your MM are looking at! my cell and MM's cell are our own through our workplace and neither my BF nor his W can use them, so we feel relatively safe texting and/or leaving messages in the evenings and weekends. we are so lucky in that respect!

and it's funny that your MM acts like your surrogate H when he's at your house. when my MM comes to my house, he goes right to my bedroom. i haven't furnished the spare bedrooms since my girls left the house, so we use mine. he never sets foot in the rest of the house on those occasions. however, when i go to his house, i'm all over the place, EXCEPT their bedroom. i refuse to go there and we only use the spare room in his house. very weird vibes!!

take care,

gurl

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Thu, 11-20-2003 - 10:50pm

Hey gurl... thanks for the luck... I'll need it! I don't think I'll be too depressed... I'll certainly get withdrawals and have so much to tell MM when it's over... he won't know what hit him :)


The first two weeks will be ok as I'll be away and I'm sure keeping very busy with family and doing things... although I know my mind will wander Christmas Day and New Year when I silently send him all my love and kisses.

Sweet
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Fri, 11-21-2003 - 8:53am
i agree sweet, that last week will be very, very difficult! both of you will have "much" stored up for each other by the time you get together, won't ya!

have a great weekend,

gurl