Good Morning, Goddesses!

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Good Morning, Goddesses!
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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 10:47am
How are you all today? Good, I hope:) I'm just waiting on the weekend. My H and I are driving out to see Dream/Angel and her H at their new home. I can't believe she is only 4 hours from me now. It just goes to show that one can find great friends on this board. NMR
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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 10:48am
BTW, has anyone heard from Gurl lately? NMR
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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 10:53am
I was wondering where Gurl was.
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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 11:36am
HERE I AM!!! sorry ladies (and i see some guys too!) but i've been soooo freakin' busy at work and at home and with MM. didn't mean to neglect you all!

and i'm feeling somewhat distance from MM. here's the story.

MM and W made last-minute plans with his family to meet on the west coast for the thanksgiving weekend. i already had plans with BF to spend thursday-friday at a b&b for his b-day, my treat.

so we all go our separate ways but starting wednesday night, i get 6 phone messages from MM -- "missing you, wish you were here, not having fun without you", etc. and you know, i didn't miss MM, AT ALL! BF and i had soooo much fun and spent wednesday through sunday together doing great stuff, having a great time and lots of fun and games.

so MM comes home late, late, late saturday night, leaves me another message about trying to meet up on sunday, but i've already got plans to have lunch (and cosmos!) with my best girlfriend (who knows all about MM) and then dinner plans with BF, so i leave MM a message that i can't see him sunday - no time, sorry! well, of course, he gets pissed and starts calling me, where are you going with girlfriend, what time, etc. so i give him the 411 and guess what? MM SHOWS UP AT THE BAR! he could not stand it that i was somewhere without BF and him. he stayed for 30 minutes, drank a couple of beers and reiterated that he had a crappy time over the weekend.

and i didn't go on and on about my weekend and how great it was, i do have much empathy for MM and wouldn't rub it in his face. but right now i just want to concentrate on BF and the holidays and not MM. so i'm not taking his every call and not making plans to "get together" so i guess i'm in self-imposed NC right now. AND IT FEELS GOOD!

whatever.... this too shall pass, i'm sure!

love you guys,

gurl

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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 11:52am
You go Gurl! I love it, a woman in control:):) Glad you're back! NMR
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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 12:09pm
thanks nmr, i do love being strong and in control of myself. not that i always am, but am most of the time and the rest of the time, well, i just talk myself back into it!!

STRONG WOMEN RULE!!

gurl