Good news & good news, but...a question

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Good news & good news, but...a question
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Thu, 09-17-2009 - 11:16am

Hello everybody...


Well, my AP/BF and I have been doing very well. If you'll remember, we went for a short road trip and I got to meet two of his brothers. We were away for a few days and so spent a few nights in hotels, which is always a lot of fun. I think it's the no pressure factor :0)


I've been trying really hard to curtail my drinking (in a very large way) and I've been doing very well with that. It's funny, but I'm realizing that the drinking causes it's own kind of "fog"...no wonder I've been so messed up, having to deal with two types of the darned stuff! (Fog that is). I've been noticing that my whole mood has really lifted, and things don't seem all that bad anymore...and that includes any and all "glitches" that might occur with AP/BF....Wow, eh? I'm sure that we'll still have moments...but I think that I'm finally in

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Registered: 01-12-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 11:40am

I think he's just feeling a tad bit jealous.

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 1:24pm

Thx btrue,


You have an extremely valid point. I just remembered the time (really early in our relationship) when he told me that he still sleeps with the W on occasion, it really hurt me a lot.


So yes, I think this is probably a subject best left alone. I still want to tell him that he was out of line for asking me about it though...although I won't!


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Registered: 01-12-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 2:38pm
I think it's ok if you want to tell him it was out of line or none of his business!