Honestly I think your guy is very insecure. I think he is looking for you to pick him up. With his insecurity issues, he feels he is not good enough for you, and you will find someone else. He probably feels he is not satisfying your needs, as he can not be with you enough.
If you don't mind using your energy to keep picking him up, you can make it work. Although it can be very tiresome, spending time picking someone up versus enjoying life.
there is always a level of playful insecurity couples will share.. i think his is a bit more clinical, and i am being polite when i say "a bit".. i wouldn't stand for it at all.. from what you wrote, you have a very good, healthy sense of where things are with the two of you.. now the question is, is this what YOU want?.. you are the only one who can answer that.. for me, life is way too short for an A to demand this much effort..
Hello Confused,
Honestly I think your guy is very insecure. I think he is looking for you to pick him up. With his insecurity issues, he feels he is not good enough for you, and you will find someone else. He probably feels he is not satisfying your needs, as he can not be with you enough.
If you don't mind using your energy to keep picking him up, you can make it work. Although it can be very tiresome, spending time picking someone up versus enjoying life.
Good luck,
Sunny
there is always a level of playful insecurity couples will share.. i think his is a bit more clinical, and i am being polite when i say "a bit".. i wouldn't stand for it at all.. from what you wrote, you have a very good, healthy sense of where things are with the two of you.. now the question is, is this what YOU want?.. you are the only one who can answer that.. for me, life is way too short for an A to demand this much effort..
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