Greeneyesofblue's response to Karen
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| Fri, 04-23-2004 - 9:54am |
I feel its a very pathetic approach when any body who disagrees with a particular situation is made to run away. I see that happening on the betrayed board where God forbid any OW posts an opinion to a question, the spy group will spot her and shoo her out. I see the same thing happening over here. I see most of the people making the comment "don't judge". Do you really not "judge" and "project your situation on somebody else" when one person complains about their marriage and you apply your experiences and tell them that things won't improve or something is definitely wrong in their primary relationship. Sometimes people do need a swift kick in the butt to open their eyes and let them see what really is the truth. Lets be a little more open here and invite others opinions and stay away from the cliches such as "We will support you whatever your decision is" and shooing anybody who doesn't. Try telling that cliche to a person pondering jumping over a cliff.
Let the board remain democratic and not a dictatorship.
PG

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I totally agree with you! However Karen never said once in her post that she left them to live strictly with their father so she could be with another man. I think what happened is that while her DD was with her dad her tooth fell out and she wasn't there to be the tooth fairy. I feel for your step children, no parent, male or female should abandon their children to go live with someone else. Karen and her ex I assume from what I have read are working out living arrangements, and like someone else posted, they must be doing an adult job of it because her x at least had her DD call her with the great news.
Karen's grief shows that she is not abandoning her children, she is just in an adjustment period and will work it out.
deedee
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