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GUILT!!!!
| Thu, 07-22-2010 - 6:39pm |
Met with AP today and he stated that he is starting to feel guilty about this A. I asked him
| Thu, 07-22-2010 - 6:39pm |
Met with AP today and he stated that he is starting to feel guilty about this A. I asked him
I'm so sorry, army mom :(.
Yes, it sounds like he has feelings for you, but if this is what he truly wants, you can't push.
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((((HUGS)))) ArmyMom...I'm sorry! I don't really have any advice for you, but wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and how hard this must be. If he is feeling this much guilt, it is probably because he does have feelings for you, and that is probably not something he planned on going into the A.
Take some time for YOU...I know that is easier said than done:) Hang in there!
I'm sorry Army_mom. You're right that your first priority should be to get out of your present relationship. Don't worry about seeing someone else and then hurting that person if your AP is single and comes looking for you. Don't even think that far ahead. Just get out of your present R. If you wait, before seeing anyone, until everything is sorted out about you being on your own, and you wait until you are OVER your AP, then starting something new will come naturally, and it won't matter if AP comes back. It won't matter because you will be OVER him. But you can't plan around the POSSIBILITY of him coming back. If he does, and the timing is right, then it was meant to be, right? But maybe there's someone else out there that is meant to be for you. You can't think about all that right now - just concentrate on one thing at a time, first getting out of your R.
Good luck sweetie, keep us updated! ♥
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