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Guilt trip
| Fri, 03-05-2004 - 9:30am |
Hello All,
Thank you for reading my post.
I'll try to make the story short. Met guy, became friends, guy left 6 years girlfriend in september, get back with her in december (they used to live together now they see each other once a week). Friendship developed into more and I am now the OW.
He cannot live with the guilt, he cannot make love to her anymore(since our affair started), he cannot sleep, he is very depressed.
I thought when it all started that he was single, he told me soon after that he got back to her.
He feels miserable because he is cheating on her, yet he does not want to stop the relationship with me. I feel miserable because he did not tell me she had childrens from a previous relationship and I feel it is wrong to take him away since he lived with them for about a year.
We were supposed to go on vacation for a week him and I and now she just told him that she wants to go on vacation with him and he does not know what to do.
To complicate things further, I am in love with the guy (he told me he is too and I believe him so far).
Thank you for reading my post.
I'll try to make the story short. Met guy, became friends, guy left 6 years girlfriend in september, get back with her in december (they used to live together now they see each other once a week). Friendship developed into more and I am now the OW.
He cannot live with the guilt, he cannot make love to her anymore(since our affair started), he cannot sleep, he is very depressed.
I thought when it all started that he was single, he told me soon after that he got back to her.
He feels miserable because he is cheating on her, yet he does not want to stop the relationship with me. I feel miserable because he did not tell me she had childrens from a previous relationship and I feel it is wrong to take him away since he lived with them for about a year.
We were supposed to go on vacation for a week him and I and now she just told him that she wants to go on vacation with him and he does not know what to do.
To complicate things further, I am in love with the guy (he told me he is too and I believe him so far).
I don't fall in love often, he doesn't either can a 2 month relationship survive faced to a 6 years on again off again one? Do I stand a chance?

hi vivi and welcome to the board.
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