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Tue, 12-09-2003 - 2:58pm
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Edited 3/10/2004 3:55 pm ET ET by geek_chic

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Registered: 11-19-2003
In reply to: geek_chic
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 7:39pm
Gurl, how long does it generally take for them to calm down. For my SG it's been 4 weeks since that night, 2 weeks since he replied to my e-mail and ims. I haven't contacted him in 2 weeks and we don't see each other. I'm starting to think, out of sight, e-mail, im, cell, out of mind. Know what I mean? How long should I wait? I'm wondering if the NC will make me forget too, so far it's not. C
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: geek_chic
Wed, 12-10-2003 - 12:23pm
hey cowboy, every man is different, but eventually, unless they pack up and leave town, he will make contact with you. in the meantime, you need to keep busy and distract yourself, which shouldn't be hard considering it's holiday time!

i wish i could give you a timeframe, but alas, i cannot. try to be patient. i know it's hard, but if you are, once he does contact you again, you will feel more in control and wanted by your man. let him make the next move! that's better for his ego and your self-respect.

hang in there, honey,

gurl

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