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| Wed, 12-17-2003 - 2:23pm |
I should have deleted it. In it he said, "I'm sure you feel better by ending things, but it ended after we met in the hotel room. You see for me, it was all about the hunt. Guys don't need "friends" we have buddies we golf with, drink with, play cards with. Women serve one or two purposes, to have our kids, clean our houses, and for sex. Women outside of marriage are for hunting. Once they are bagged, the hunt is over and we move on. Our wives are too focused on being the perfect little wife to no whats going on. So we have the best of both worlds. Merry Christmas"
Yes, it was a spitful email, but it hurt like hell. I believe all the lies, how could I have been SO stupid? I must have been from seeking outside of marriage I didn't have; friendship and love.
Feeling like life isn't so grand about now.

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I wish you the best, and time heals all wounds :) (((Hugs))))
HUGS
jen
The thing that bothers me is I told him once, that Christmas is such a difficult time of year for me. Both my parents died 10 years ago just before Christmas, so the season is really a stuggle for me. Bearing that in mind, he still chose to send that email.
I picked a failure as a husband, and a failure in a MM. Not a very good track record.
Feel good that you made the right decision -- WITHOUT A DOUBT! I know it would definitely be better to leave it as is, but I know I would still be tempted to email him back and thank him for completely justifying your decision.
His ego was bruised, but a mature individual would have handled it with dignity.
And you’ll be fine; you made a mistake -- we all make them!!
Hang in there and DON’T let him ruin your holiday!!!
Charlotte
Don't ever let anyone make you believe you are anything less than a beautiful, wonderful person. There are people in your life who love you. Men, in general, are rats. It's really hard to find a good one, sad to say. Most of them have so much stubborn pride that if they have a single solitary emotion, they hide it so deeply we never even know about it. And that is what makes us women such wonderful creatures. We care. We feel. When someone hurts us, even if we know it's over, we are deeply saddened by it. And we aren't ashamed to let the world know.
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