Guys' Point of View Needed....

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Guys' Point of View Needed....
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Fri, 04-02-2004 - 1:45pm
I asked my MM to give me some insight on what path our relationship is on. As you already know, I'm going through a divorce right now and (not splitting up because of the A - my STBxH doesn't know about MM) MM has been a rock for me through this. We've never really had the "relationship" talk....but I did want to know where he put me in his life. Is the R for "fun" or is it more serious (which it is).

He replied "As far as what the future holds, you need to know that I plan to be a part of your life...who knows in what capacity that will be...but since the most important part I can have in your life is friend, that's what I will always be, no matter where life takes both of us in the future..."

Could someone help me with this? I love him with all my heart, but I want to be realistic. I have told him that I don't expect anything from him just because I'm getting divorced. I want to just have him in my life in whatever manner he needed. I know he needs time because of his marital situation, but his reply is a bit cryptic.

Any insight, guys?

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Mon, 04-05-2004 - 2:04pm
It's not going to be easy by any means, though. I'm going to have to find something else to do everytime the urge hits me to email him or call him. Thanks for the feedback, everyone.

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