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Guys' Point of View Needed....
| Fri, 04-02-2004 - 1:45pm |
I asked my MM to give me some insight on what path our relationship is on. As you already know, I'm going through a divorce right now and (not splitting up because of the A - my STBxH doesn't know about MM) MM has been a rock for me through this. We've never really had the "relationship" talk....but I did want to know where he put me in his life. Is the R for "fun" or is it more serious (which it is).
He replied "As far as what the future holds, you need to know that I plan to be a part of your life...who knows in what capacity that will be...but since the most important part I can have in your life is friend, that's what I will always be, no matter where life takes both of us in the future..."
Could someone help me with this? I love him with all my heart, but I want to be realistic. I have told him that I don't expect anything from him just because I'm getting divorced. I want to just have him in my life in whatever manner he needed. I know he needs time because of his marital situation, but his reply is a bit cryptic.
Any insight, guys?

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