H confronted Ap who is his bf too.
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H confronted Ap who is his bf too.
| Wed, 09-10-2008 - 10:05am |
D day happend but with no proof, I guess we made it through but seems without each other.
| Wed, 09-10-2008 - 10:05am |
D day happend but with no proof, I guess we made it through but seems without each other.
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Girl I'm sorry that you are getting blasted for this.
Falling for a friend of family is the last thing we ever think we will do. But given the many situations in which families include each other it is easy to do. You get to know the person during more intimate times than you would say at the work place. You know their family histories, their kids, their highg points and their low points. It becomes a situation that becuz you know each other so intimate that boundaries get broken adn overlooked. Having been there myself I know how easy this can happen.
That out of the way I also know on the downside how hard it can be to break it off with somebody that is close to family, or to have a D-day with someone who is close to family. Especially if the D-day revolves around just accusations, no solid proof. It is harder becuz you will still see each other in family situations and you have to act as if nothing has happened. You still must carry on communication during these times. Which can seriously tug at heart strings. You can't just go NC. Your H will still invite friend over. He may still be questioning your interactions between each other. And sometimes they will invite them over just to stab and rip open the heart a lil further.
You must be strong girl, and be careful not to raise any flags. Do not do anything that would elicit any thought that you two are communicating. It is hard I'm not gonna sugar coat that one at all. You have told yourself your M is over and have sought legal advice. That my friend is one step closer than me to start the healing process. I am not in a position to leave my M nor is AP.
I know Btrue has great advice to offer too. Lean on us when you need advice or a helping hand. Afterall this is a support board.
Stay strong,
Lost
Thanks for your support.
We had to spend some time together this weekend with each other's families there.
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