Had to slap my ap

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Had to slap my ap
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Sat, 05-22-2010 - 12:39pm

Hi, all


So, we finally met. Had a good time like always however, things got a little ugly. As he was walking me to my car, he seen these two young pretty ladies turn around look at them, look at me and said

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2010
Sat, 05-22-2010 - 2:14pm

LOL!

Are you happy now ? It must feel good ,the slap that is ;)

How does your AP put up with you,gotta ask the poor guy.He must really love you to go through this with you ( Once again,I dont know your story as well,just jumping in here and there)

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Sat, 05-22-2010 - 8:24pm
I did not feel good to slap him. After it happen, I just thought to myself I just went down to his level. I like to give respect and be respect back. Once you lose respect for one another is pretty much down hill after that..:(
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
Sat, 05-22-2010 - 8:43pm

Are you back with your ex-AP?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2010
Sat, 05-22-2010 - 10:54pm

Sorry Lady- I have to say something you may not like. Slapping is abuse. If he had 'slapped' you- we would call it abuse and tell you to run a mile.


Say what you want to him in anger- but hands are not meant for inflicting injury or pain on another person- doesnt matter if he is big and you are small- its just terrible that you did that.


You are what you consistently do
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Sat, 05-22-2010 - 11:12pm

Seriously?

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Sun, 05-23-2010 - 12:47pm

Hi, Ladies


Ok, I admitted I was wrong..but it was a reaction that even surprise me...I know men would always look and fantasias with other women.. Hey, they might go as far and cheat. That is not the point, my point is when

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
Sun, 05-23-2010 - 2:04pm
You're right, it IS disrespectful, but
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2009
Sun, 05-23-2010 - 4:18pm

"Ok, I admitted I was wrong..but it was a reaction that even surprise me"


"That is not the point, my point is when

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2008
Sun, 05-23-2010 - 5:08pm

I agree that slapping her AP might have been too much. We are only humans, it is natural to have a reaction when we see attractive people.

However, saying "I hope he dumps you" is a little too strong.. This is supposed to be a support board (which does not mean we all have to agree on everything, but we should not say hurtful things to each other either). We already go through enough pain as it is, so let's be respectful even if we disagree and let's support each other as much as we can.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Mon, 05-24-2010 - 8:20am

"I hope he dumps you"..Thank you for the well wishes.. However, he have not dump me, he call me

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