Had to slap my ap
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Had to slap my ap
| Sat, 05-22-2010 - 12:39pm |
Hi, all
So, we finally met. Had a good time like always however, things got a little ugly. As he was walking me to my car, he seen these two young pretty ladies turn around look at them, look at me and said

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It was a bad reaction, to his comments on the ladies.
Yesterday, when he call he seem to think that I dump him because of what happen. I told him that I was sorry for slapping him. I know that violent never solve anything. I also told him that everyone deserve to be respected and that what I did was horrible.
No, I am not back with my exap.. Have not heard from him or seen him
We all deserve to be respected regardless of the type of relationship you are in. So, you are saying because I am having affair my ap have permission to treat me whatever way he wants ? So everyone here in this board deserve to be disrespected because we are some way or another cheating.
Her AP is single, so he's not looking at ladystill behind a wife's back.
I think what ladystill is upset about is that he looked and commented about pretty women right when she was there.
It's a complicated issue. Honestly, my H does that, and I actually point out pretty women to him, and if he's asleep on the beach and a good looking lady walks by in a thong I wake him up to enjoy LOL! I would do the same for my OM but we usually don't see pretty women when we're out to lunch. However, I know he would never point one out and comment to me - he's just not like that - no matter what he might be thinking.
You're right sillyme, in that we might not be able to expect the same level of behavior in an affair, but most of us still think we have a right to have our feelings considered, whatever they may be.
And everyone is right that Ladystill shouldn't have slapped her AP, but she has said she's sorry and won't do it again.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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Thank you Lex for answering the question for me. :)
I go out of my way to see my AP.
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