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Fri, 04-30-2004 - 2:30pm
Hi again folks. How have you all been holding up with out me? ;)

I am doing fine, thank you. My OM is my Bf now. Yeah baby. I am on the D path like many of you here. I have already served papaers to stbx-H, Lucky and NRY. One step ahead of you guys. H is taking it OK so far.


OM is in heaven. So am I. He came home yesterday and stayed all night. We were star gazing for a while yesterday night and told me that he has never been happier. Ever. Awww, isn't that sweet of him. He was happy with all the star and angels that helped him get closer to me. I said I second that emotion. Its all still dream-like and unbelieveable but I can tell its for real. LOL

For those you still in despair over not getting emails, phone calls or plans cancelling, don't worry. Everything will fall into place if you are patient enough. I can't believe I am saying it - for I am not patient person at all. But this A has taught me so many wonderful things and new ways to look at life, I am a new and a better woman. I have thank my OM for it. For his unconditional love and support. Thanks honey, if you are reading it. :)

Juliet.


Edited 4/30/2004 2:31 pm ET ET by julietsfate

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Fri, 04-30-2004 - 3:09pm
Juliet - I am so happy for you.
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In reply to: julietsfate
Sat, 05-01-2004 - 4:05am
juliet, how long were you having this A ? I am so happy for you!
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In reply to: julietsfate
Sat, 05-01-2004 - 9:43am
almost 4 years.
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Sat, 05-01-2004 - 10:45am
wooohoo juliet. I am so glad for you. I hope everything falls into place for me too. Good Luck and many more best wishes..
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Registered: 03-05-2004
In reply to: julietsfate
Sat, 05-01-2004 - 2:31pm
hi,

your still around too! This is great!!! I am thinking it would have be easier if my MM just stayed with his W . Guess he has no choice she is the one finally leaving. Unless they changed their minds. Heck, I don't know anything anymore! But I am happy for Both of you. I will probably end up with nothing ! Whoops! No Bad thoughts, no bad thoughts, no bad thoughts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sat, 05-01-2004 - 3:30pm
Trouble, the more you think you will not get something you want bad, its like cursing yourself. You have to believe in the dream to make it happen. So keep those happy thoughts coming, hon. I know some days used to think it was impossible, but i somehow held on. So find a reason to believe and believe...
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In reply to: julietsfate
Sat, 05-01-2004 - 5:54pm
It is those damn statistics. I hate them ! I don't believe them do you?
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Sat, 05-01-2004 - 11:29pm
nope.. never...
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Sun, 05-02-2004 - 12:24am
Juliet: Way to go girlfriend!!! So nice to see a happy outcome. I was wondering: is your OM married or single and do either of you have kids? I've been involved in mine for more than 5 years. I love him so much it hurts, ya' know? He has said in the past that if it weren't for his children, he'd leave the W for me. But then he back pedals and it just drives me crazy. My M is the pits, but still the thought of a D makes me cringe. I feel for you on that one.

Best wishes to you, it does my heart good to hear stories like yours. Take care, Virgogirl