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Has anyone else made drastic changes?
| Mon, 12-15-2003 - 5:12pm |
With all of the talk today about botox, chemical peels, and clothes shopping, I would like to ask if anyone has made drastic changes as a result of your EMA.
Making changes in your life is a sign of having an affair and I am displaying all of the signs. I have changed drastically and I think my H may suspect something. Since my A began in Sept., I have lost 20 lbs., dropped from a size 8 to a size 2, and had breast implants. Of course, I have also changed my eating habits, started exercising more, and completely changed my wardrobe. Friends and family are really starting to wonder about me and a few have asked if I have a new boyfriend. Ofcourse, I believe that you should deny, deny, deny.
Has anyone else made changes to themselves? Are your friends or your H suspicious?

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oh god! nothing like that... in fact... I'm more content and happier about my body now that I have ever been.
Sweet
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I did go back to wearing more of the sexy lingerie that I wore before I had kids. But I was ripe for doing that anyway. I had a lot of it at home that DH and I enjoyed, but I started occasionally wearing it during the day, too.
And I had a brief skincare crisis early on in the relationship, in which I started panicking that one day my OM would wake up and wonder what he was doing with an older woman, so I bought a couple hundred dollars' worth of expensive skincare products. On the bright side, they WORK, so I've stuck with them!
No one would wonder if I had a boyfriend. I am a very low-key person. It also didn't take long for me to realize that my OM would still adore me if I dressed in plastic bags, gained 50 lbs, had a disfiguring accident, was paralyzed from the neck down, or was 85 years old.
So I guess I haven't made any changes that anyone would notice...
Charlotte
PS: But then i don't have psychlogical issues like some people here who won't quit.
Edited 12/15/2003 8:20:40 PM ET by julietsfate
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