I haven't, but I am concscious that what happened to me happened because I wanted it too...my marriage is not as happy as yours but it does fulfill certain needs.
That's not too different from what happened to me, alicat.
My marriage was perfunctory at that point, but it wasn't *terrible*. It simply was unlivable, if you understand the difference. There was this terribly attractive, witty, kind, man at work on whom I immediately developed a crush. Fast-forward 2-1/2 years and he started flirting with me in a serious way. It wasn't long before I was flirting back. Dense me took weeks to figure out that he was trying to open the door to something more if I wanted.
I gave it serious consideration. I thought long and hard about whether I wanted to have an affair or not. I finally made the leap. Mine did not "just happen". And now, nearly 7 years later, here we are.....
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MoonUnit
That's not too different from what happened to me, alicat.
My marriage was perfunctory at that point, but it wasn't *terrible*. It simply was unlivable, if you understand the difference. There was this terribly attractive, witty, kind, man at work on whom I immediately developed a crush. Fast-forward 2-1/2 years and he started flirting with me in a serious way. It wasn't long before I was flirting back. Dense me took weeks to figure out that he was trying to open the door to something more if I wanted.
I gave it serious consideration. I thought long and hard about whether I wanted to have an affair or not. I finally made the leap. Mine did not "just happen". And now, nearly 7 years later, here we are.....
Lucky