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| Sun, 05-02-2010 - 3:31pm |
Hello everyone,
It has been quite some time since I have posted.
My question is this, have you ever asked your M AP "why they stepped out of their marriage?" and if so, what was the answer. Did you get one? Were you

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have you ever asked your M AP "why they stepped out of their marriage?"
My AP told be before we went out the first time that his M was essentially over.
My AP volunteered this info pretty early on in the A and before anhything physical happened.
Honestly, I can't believe you've been in this long and haven't asked before now!! LOL!!
My answer was that his head tells him one thing (he's got it really good at home), but his heart tells him something completely different, and as much as he wants to love his wife, he just can't no matter how hard he tries. And it's not like when we first met, he looked at me and decided to fall in love with me...it just happened. And he wants this great feeling - to love and to be loved back, and that's why he is with me.
Well, no matter how beautiful it all sounds, it's over and been over for some time. Love is just not enough.
XOXO
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I'm married and my OM is single, so he's the one who asked questions regarding my M and where my head was at. Honestly the conversation took place very early.
As was mentioned on another board - if you get naked together, don't you have a right to ask whatever questions you think you want to know the answer to? After such a long involvement, I'd ask whatever the heck I wanted LOL.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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I knew before we even began our A; we've been friends for a long time.
Hi all ~
I finally asked him the question. I was met with anger. I came right out and asked him why he had this affair.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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