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| Thu, 08-21-2003 - 10:05am |
which was last Sat.So I wanted to know what was wrong.Boy did I findout.He told me his w said something to him that made him feel like s--t and he thought it would be better to end this thing,so he more less hurt me and made me feel like s--t.I feel alittle bit jealous over his w even though Ishould be relieved that this thing has ended.What is wrong with me?I have not told my h b yet.I'm not sure I'm going to either.I go talk to a therapist next week.I hope this will help.I talked to my h about not having anything in common anymore and the lack of communication we have.He was very sympathetic but really didn't say much.I really feel like I want out of this m but I am afraid of the outcome if I do leave.I really feel in my heart that if I leave my h that down the road I will realize that it was a big mistake.Anyone have some advice?Please don't be to critical.I know I'm not much of a person.I sometimes wonder if life is even worth the challenges it has.

Liberal
I'm sure it's normal for us to have
confusion about our EMA's. I find
it hard myself to continue to love
my OM and to stay married. I'm just
as confused as you are honey! Good
luck on Monday and I know you are a
very strong person, and whatever you
decide to do in your A, I know you
can do it! ~passion
i hope not.thanks again.
the same situation as me. It's
always good to have someone who's
been there. And this board has
saved my sanity plenty of times.
~passion