He is always confusing me!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2008
He is always confusing me!!!
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Thu, 09-04-2008 - 4:51pm

Hi there, my ap has gone from confusing to confusinger?!! well the thing is he has told me he wants to try and do the right thing by his wife and wants us to be over, but the reason i'm still on this board is he still behaves like something is happening between us we havent had sex for a while but that's it. he would say one thing and then act a completely different way. It's what he says that is often the things that mention breaking it off to give his relationship a real go and stuff but then his actions tell me he wants to be with me he would still spend the night with me and things like that.


im thinking that first of all if

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-11-2007
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 6:08pm

Hi Sami


I've had the same thing..my OM said he wants to be a better man and be better to his W even though he loves me, but this changes whenever we see each other and he says "I am hard to resist" and "its so hard"..


I'm beginning to realise that this is real cake taker situation..in my situation I believe he wants me to believe he has changed and then when I think he is good for doing that..he moves in again and loves it as I "think he is great"..hope that makes sense.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 1:43pm
He wants to keep his M safe but keep you hooked on as well.As simple as it is.I've done that myself many times.Dont be fooled by his actions.If sex is what you also want from him then go along or dump him.