he emailed me .

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Registered: 06-08-2007
he emailed me .
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Sun, 09-21-2008 - 10:39pm
for some of you guys it's a little thing, for me, a very big thing. when i seen his name, i was like omg. i thought it would be a nasty email. no he was like hi, how are you. omg, i'm so happy, he hasn't forgotten me. my best friend finally got in touch. i miss him so much.

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Registered: 02-22-2008
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 12:55pm

I´m so happy for you Tori !
After losing his job his thoughts and feelings were probably all over the place. He didn´t want to bother you with his problems. I think I posted earlier that he needed time to regroup and find out what´s important to him. And that he would probably be in touch when he was ready for it. YOU are important to him, he´s back and he loves you.

Take care of yourself and enjoy the happines that´s coming your way !

(((hugs)))


Edwina
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Registered: 05-14-2008
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 4:58pm

I am so happy I was worried about you! I am gald That you heard from him and it is sweet that he kept those emails. :)


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Registered: 06-08-2007
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 9:29pm
I know he would be upset if he knew I have kept every email he sent me last night.2 hours worth. I have to find a safe place to put them. He has gone against what we vowed we would not do was email or I'm. He first wanted to I'm. I couldn't on my other pc.I just read them all again. I guess absence does work.
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Registered: 02-22-2008
In reply to: tori2007
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 7:36am

Make yourself a new Google mail/gmail or Yahoo/ymail account and send all the e-mails to that address. The best way is of course for him to set up a similar e-mail for himself.

Edwina
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Registered: 09-19-2008
In reply to: tori2007
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 9:37am
all the emails he emailed me showed up with his real name on them, i have them stored with his real name right now. so i have to get them off of there quick. it's a folder i know my husband wont look at, but ya never know. he wanted to im with yahoo im, we both have fire fox. i was using my sons pc, and didn't have yahoo im on it. so that's why we wound up emailing. our contact wont be near as frequent, there's no way he can. his wife and him right now are home together. i said to him how come he changed his mind, he said i need to talk to you, it's the only way i can. his last email he told me how to delete everything, including my browser.
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Registered: 09-01-2008
In reply to: tori2007
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 2:54pm

Hi hon

you can also chat through Gmail if I remember correctly (I don't use it, don't need to).

I understand the Google Chrome browser has a privacy setting that will delete everything if you activate it. I've not tried it as I don't have an H to worry about, just use Firefox.

In addition - if you want to save things - use Gmail as already suggested, or buy yourself a USB key and save everything onto that - I do that just in case my PC crashed! The keys are lipstick sized so easy to hide. In fact, I'm pretty sure you can get ones that *look* like a lipstick....

D xx

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Registered: 02-18-2008
In reply to: tori2007
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 3:44pm
Happy for you. What is your story if you don't mind me asking? Why hadn't you both been in contact? How long had it been since you heard from him?
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Registered: 06-08-2007
In reply to: tori2007
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 9:56am
the affair was a work based affair. in other words we never used email, home pc, home phone ,or cell phone. only work, and i would go see him at work. he lost his job 3 weeks ago. they didn't pay their rent and basically screwed him. i honestly thought i would never hear from him again, he never had to work for the affair. we took advantage that we both would always be there. 2 and half weeks went by, for the first time ever i emailed him, told him how sorry i was about what happened. no response. i sent him one more because i wanted to tell him about the talk i had with one of his c-workers and how he had awsome things to say about him, nothing. then one night i went on line, i had an email from him. i sent a response back, he sat there for hours from went he sent the email hoping i would respond, we talked for hours. last night i sent him a very long email, talking about everything, i told him how i missed him, i felt so disconnected because i'm use to face to face for the last 2 years, and said if you don't want me to email, tell me i wont. he replied this morning, right away, no wait and told me a time we'll talk tomorrow. this is big steps for because he has to work now to make this work. i'm terrfied of his wife finding the emails, but he didn't tell me not to email him. i think he enjoys reading them.

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