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He ended it but still loves me?
| Sat, 07-18-2009 - 1:23am |
I've posted before but am trying to find a little more clarity I guess.
| Sat, 07-18-2009 - 1:23am |
I've posted before but am trying to find a little more clarity I guess.
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Hi Rollercoasterlife,
I am out of the A, but my xAP is also my neighbor and he also thought (still thinks) that we can be each others "f*ck buddies". No way!!! All he wants from me (and I asked him specifically) is a "sexual relationship, because that's all we can have" (we are both married).
Well forget it! I won't do that. Not anymore. In the beginning it was "I love you", blah blah "I miss you" blah blah and all the other stuff. But now he wants to have me "just for the great sex". I am not going to lend myself for that. Besides, the A brought me nothing but heartache and thankfully I am out of it now. But he still comes fishing... he still makes sexual comments when he has the chance ... so that reminded me of your situation. It sucks when the xAP is your neighbor. It's a daily struggle and it's so hard to get out of it completely... But if you want to, you can
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