He ended it but still loves me?

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Registered: 06-09-2009
He ended it but still loves me?
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Sat, 07-18-2009 - 1:23am

I've posted before but am trying to find a little more clarity I guess.

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Registered: 08-17-2008
Thu, 07-23-2009 - 5:07am
yep thats what my AP tells me he loves me and always will .
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Registered: 04-04-2009
Thu, 07-23-2009 - 1:24pm

Hi Rollercoasterlife,
I am out of the A, but my xAP is also my neighbor and he also thought (still thinks) that we can be each others "f*ck buddies". No way!!! All he wants from me (and I asked him specifically) is a "sexual relationship, because that's all we can have" (we are both married).

Well forget it! I won't do that. Not anymore. In the beginning it was "I love you", blah blah "I miss you" blah blah and all the other stuff. But now he wants to have me "just for the great sex". I am not going to lend myself for that. Besides, the A brought me nothing but heartache and thankfully I am out of it now. But he still comes fishing... he still makes sexual comments when he has the chance ... so that reminded me of your situation. It sucks when the xAP is your neighbor. It's a daily struggle and it's so hard to get out of it completely... But if you want to, you can

htgo

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Registered: 07-27-2009
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 3:15pm
Do your self a favor. Let him go for good. He will continue to bring you down until you feel like you have lost your self completely. He is using you and you are letting your self be used. It is hard, but once you move on you will feel so much better. Everyone comes in to your life for a purpose, only God will let you know when you are ready what that purpose is. It will hurt less in the long run if you cut it off now. Take it from someone who has been there and let myself be used.
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Registered: 06-09-2009
Wed, 07-29-2009 - 4:00pm
I'm so confused.

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