he has never stood me up before

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Registered: 03-05-2004
he has never stood me up before
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Mon, 03-08-2004 - 10:59am
I am so worried! I don't know if something has happened to him or what. This is the bad part. Can't understand where he could be. If he isn't comming to see me he should of called. I am frantic!
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Registered: 03-02-2004
Mon, 03-08-2004 - 11:15am
Hey, XXX: I don't know from your message how long he's been overdue, but try and calm down. I know it's easier said than done, and I can't tell you how many times I've had that panicked feeling when I haven't heard in awhile (because, honestly, who would tell me? I don't "exist" in his life.) Most likely something came up that he couldn't get out of, and couldn't get in touch with you in a "safe" way. This happened to me Saturday night. If my MM's W changes the family's plans for the weekend, there ain't nuthin' I can do about it. I don't like it, but sure enough, he called me Monday morning and explained it all to me.

*Sigh* -- it's not easy to be in this position, and I don't have a magic answer for you. But please take some solace in that others feel the same way you do. Please let me know what happens!

Good luck!

Sugarbee