he just gave himself a deadline but --

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-06-2008
he just gave himself a deadline but --
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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:03pm

AP and I had a great discussion early in the evening about his plans to tell his W and move out -- he gave himself a deadline of 2 weeks from now (I left my H about 3 weeks ago and got an apartment, the plan is for A to move in w/ me).

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 8:52am
Before I offer my thoughts, were you actually present for the phone call with his sister?

 

 

 

 

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-06-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 10:01am
yes and yes -- he listed to his VMs on speaker and I was standing right there as he was talking to his sister, both times.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 11:22am
Ok..whew!

 

 

 

 

 

******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2006
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 11:28am

I have to say that I don't know that it will change his plans to be with you but may change the timeline.