UGH! :-( so sad for you and scared for myself, cuz THIS is my biggest fear and biggest possibility of reality for me as well. I KNOW, that there is a really really good chance I will be going through this as well probably very soon. Although my AP has "moved out" (3 weeks now) I still dont think the reality of being away from kids permanently has hit him yet (I'm guessing that will come around holidays). I think once that starts hitting him, he will feel like he has to go back to "try" and work things out for the kids' sake. He's gonna say he has to give M one "last try" and of course I will have to let him because he will never live with himself if he feels like he never gave it one last chance. He will always be wondering if it could've worked out, and I dont want him to blame me for not allowing him to give it that one last chance. He knows, though, that if he DOES go back to work things out, WE are over and will not have
im sooooo sorry that has happened but i feel like we're in the same boat. my man said that too but last time he tried it didnt work which is how i came about but it's in a weird place. when we talk he says he wants nothing to do with me but when we're together he stills wants me to get his lunch
Life is strange...maybe this ending is just a new beginning...stay strong please...
Tearyangel
Sending some cyber <<>> your way.
I am sorry you are in so much pain.
j30gal, your post was so encouraging, and I'm not even sure exactly why - it was just honest and clear and hopeful.
UGH! :-( so sad for you and scared for myself, cuz THIS is my biggest fear and biggest possibility of reality for me as well. I KNOW, that there is a really really good chance I will be going through this as well probably very soon. Although my AP has "moved out" (3 weeks now) I still dont think the reality of being away from kids permanently has hit him yet (I'm guessing that will come around holidays). I think once that starts hitting him, he will feel like he has to go back to "try" and work things out for the kids' sake. He's gonna say he has to give M one "last try" and of course I will have to let him because he will never live with himself if he feels like he never gave it one last chance. He will always be wondering if it could've worked out, and I dont want him to blame me for not allowing him to give it that one last chance. He knows, though, that if he DOES go back to work things out, WE are over and will not have
im sooooo sorry that has happened but i feel like we're in the same boat. my man said that too but last time he tried it didnt work which is how i came about but it's in a weird place. when we talk he says he wants nothing to do with me but when we're together he stills wants me to get his lunch