Is he playing me???
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Is he playing me???
| Mon, 02-23-2004 - 9:05pm |
Ok,i've been in a relationship for almost four years now and about 4-5 months ago another man came into my life. He is actually a friend of my bf and his father. NEways,one day my bf and I were fighting and he "dumped" me,and the other guy(cris) found out and called me, saying stuff like "i'll be there for ya" and "if he's just gonna throw u aside like that,i wanna be there to pick you right up"Anyways,after awhile i started to like him back.although i am not sure if he really does like me,or if he just likes my pot(Marijuana). I mean I had a week off from school and my bf didn't,so I invited cris over and he declined saying he would feel bad because he is good friends with the family,and that he wants me all to himself and doesn't want to share me. I'm just not sure he really likes me, I mean I've seen him with my bf's step-mother who is quite a bit older and he acts all flirty with her. And when i tell him i'm all outta pot he was all snapping his eyes at me for a bit,so i just laughed in face everytime,then after awhile he's like well i still like u. I decided to call him and told him I had felt that he was pretending to like me for my pot, He was all wondering why i thought that, I told him how I remembered when I first met him he said one of his games was getting pot not beer,and he was all flirty with B(the older lady) then he said "ok,u have me all figured out Miss Detective" then silence for a second,then he said "no i wouldn't do that for your bud,i can get it all from my roommate,he has lots. I really do like you and I think u r just trying to find reasons not to like me" then my bf got outta the shower so I had to let him go. So what do ya think? Playa??? Hope to hear responses soon,i'm confused :( because he is flirty. I mean when he flirts with the older lady when everyone is all loaded,they don't care and laugh cause the know it means nothing, or they don't even notice, but he all tickles her and says "i wanna make u wiggle" and blows on her ear gently and gives her that look,she needs to feel attractive and he knows how to make her feel attractive and every1 knows that. When he flirts with me he gives me that look,the old lady always gets mad when he does x( he's even kissed me a few times saying I'm gorgeous and that he is gonna take me from my man real soon,and that he loves hugging and kissing me,all when we're alone because my bfs family is VERY protective of me and he knows that because they've told him "you leave her alone". But are these all lines just to get me to smoke my pot with him?? He did kiss me and stuff after i told him i didn't have any pot left,but maybe he wants me to keep believing he likes me for the next time i do have pot? I also seen him the day after I told him how I felt he was playing me, then he was different with me as if he were mad,he did say that he was insulted by what I had assumed and it's too late I already said what I said. He is talking to me again now and things are back to normal,and he actually had a couple o' good j's to smoke with me the other day. Still advice greatly appreciated everyone PLEASE.
Edited 2/27/2004 11:16:08 AM ET by mmmstickybud
Edited 2/27/2004 11:16:43 AM ET by mmmstickybud

First we all know what Pot is and before you did.
Playa or not he sounds like a loooossser, so dump his a** and save your pot for someone that will split the bill.
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hi stickybud and welcome to the board.
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it's okay bud -- i'm not offended.
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