He texted me this morning . . .
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He texted me this morning . . .
| Wed, 10-22-2008 - 3:24pm |
saying "if u need anything today i'm at home. call me" . . .
Fighting off my feelings for this guy is *really* hard when he is making the first move. And holy doublespeak . . . "if u need anything"???? Yeah, I know what I *want*, but it's not what I need.

Your therapist is right. Unhappiness leads a lot of people to start an affair. That said, I hope your therapist also told you how unsuccessful most folks who go down that road ultimately are at gaining happiness. Affairs are good for temporarily filling the voids we feel. But keep in mind, they aren't referred to as roller coaster rides for nothing. The highs are great...the lows are very low.
Do yourself a favor and please try to continue with therapy before you cross any uncrossable lines. I know how hard it is, and I am well aware that my words have a good chance of falling on deaf ears. Please believe me, you might be super happy for the short bursts of time you have together, but that will not make the separations easy or ease the troubles in your marriage.