he told his W everything ! now what?
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he told his W everything ! now what?
| Wed, 05-19-2004 - 3:02am |
He told his W about us. Said it was to get her out faster ! He is still not calling me. This is so hard. He said he doesn't know what he wants right now. The emotional stuff he is dealing with right now has got to be devastaing to say the least.. I know I have got to wait for him to sort everything out and all the peices to fall together. I don't want to lose his love. I am praying for him to have the strength to get through all this change without changing what he feels for me. Do you think love will bring him back? I have got to believe in miracles right now. This is the turning point. It has to go one way or the other. I understand that I could lose him forever. Talk about hard !!! This is it guys !

You have to believe that if he loves you, he will be with you when all is said and done. You sometimes have to kiss it up to God and realize there are times in life where you have no control over what happens. You've given this man your heart and he knows that. So stay strong and know that it will all work itself out and if this is the man for you he will be with you.
If it doesn't work out the way you would like just always tell yourself that you are strong and worthy of a great relationship with a wonderful man, and it will happen.
Always believe in you!
dd
Try to relax and give it some time. There are probably so many things going on right now. Are kids involved? That can also add a completely different dimension to the situation. There are some things that only he can do, but I am sure he knows you are there for him.
If you feel comfortable you could just send a letter to work just telling him you can't walk in his shoes or even begin to know how he is feeling right now, but that you are there for him if he needs you. Sometimes it helps just to be able to do something. When I went through this it also really helped to be able to keep myself busy and surround myself with friends.
Just give it some time.
tb
Deedee: Thanks for what you wrote about "kissing it up to God". I needed to hear that today.
Peace
GB2
I can't deny it! I will just have to tell them I love him! What will that do if he decides to move on with his life without me? Do you think he is feeling any pain for me? Do you think he even thought of what this would do to me? Why would he tell her if he didn't plan on staying with me? The kids must know now too. I am sure she will rub it in trying to take away their love for him! Why would he not see that if he encludes me in all this it would save face with the kids. If they know that their father fell in love with me and I with him, Something beyond our control, would that not ease the pain? especially knowing that they were only married for convenience which they already have known that!
Missy