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| Mon, 01-19-2004 - 12:06am |
Ok...For the past three years I have been seeing my love, it is not the sex, not because we dont want it to be but it is unavoidable, but we have a very strong emotional bond with each other we can feel each others thoughts, pains, and needs. We can tell when we need one another. He truly loves me. I am seperated from my husband and have been for seven months, no i did not leave H for lover, MM has nothing to do with those problems.
The thing is...i cant get rid of my H, he just wont let go or go away, and everytime we have an arguement over our divorce something happens in MM's life. H knew of MM being the father of child and tried to get me to hurt MM over that...every time we argue, MM's wife gets a phone call....makes 4 times now...H has admitted to 3 of them...one was a hang up, 2 was to see if same man and how old he is...3 was to tell her to watch her hubby with someone in a sports car....I talke to MM at the first of last week and me and H had arguement monday...tuesday wife gets phone call....MM says she knows my name, make of my car, and was told that her H is being stalked...I'm not sure it is my H doing the calls but it is always after we have an arguement and i am at work. And said that they knew of our last meeting...easy if rode by coulda seen my car...i dont know what or who to believe...my heart tells me that MM would not lie to me or hurt me much less put this worry on me for the heck of it, but could he be wanting me to go away and this be his easy way out...I'll admit i dont want to say goodbye...and he tells me to be patient, time will tell, he will fix it...it will just be a little longer before we can see each other. today he out of the blue asked me about my 1 H....i cant figure out why... he is in prison...could he be grasping at straws...he said wife told him something....but would tell me later this week..she checks his min. on his phone now. I feel he doesnt want it over, and truly loves me. I also feel him slipping away. I dont know what to do i want to know who made the calls and what was said, i need to know...I am just so lost right now. I want and need to believe in MM, but i also am not that nieve.
any advice is appreciated...i have noone to talk to, noone to lean on i am so afraid of more coming out.

Your MM needs to call the police. If he's receiving harrassing phone calls, and he feels like he's being stalked, he needs to call the police. They can trace calls, he can block calls....