Hello, have been MIA

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2010
Hello, have been MIA
6
Sun, 03-03-2013 - 11:03am

I use to frequent this board often but after the fiasco of the change over, it became too difficult and frustrating so I left for a while.  Yesterday I was missing the support so I stopped by to see how things were going and if there were any improvements and much to my surprise, it felt and looked like the old MAS.  It was nice to see some old faces around here as well as a lot of new.  I think I will have to stop by more again.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2010
Mon, 03-04-2013 - 8:30pm

Nevereasy, its always nice to see you!!   

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2009
Mon, 03-04-2013 - 12:53pm

Please stop by (and post) again and again..

The empty, echoing hallways of MAS are no place for me to be walking around all by myself :)

But, looks like that's fast changing..:)

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2013
Sun, 03-03-2013 - 7:25pm

Welcome back again Daisy!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2010
Sun, 03-03-2013 - 4:38pm

I am on my 4th affair...1st was with a high school friend who we reconnected that ended and then a year later he committed suicide.  (actually the 1st anniversary of his death is next week).  It was a LDA but we managed to see each other pretty often and communicated every day until things ended.  We were then in touch still but not as much until he overdosed and I was the last person to talk to him.

2nd and 3rd were at the same time...they knew about each other but did not know each other.  One I met on AM and the other was someone I worked with at one time.  The AM one ended when he wife emailed me that she had found out and the other ended because of issues that are too much to talk about.  I had not heard from AM guy for several months until last week he texted me that things had settled down but I told him that I was not interested any longer.  He still trys to text but I do not respond.  The other one I still have way to much contact with due to circumstances and history.

New AP is also someone I have known for a while and although we did not work together everyday, we work for same place and had much contact.  I saw him on AM but did not contact him there, but ended up running into him one day and had lunch.  We started texting and talking and one thing led to another and I finally told  him I saw him on AM.  He is divorced and not looking for anything real, just enjoys company.  Things are good with him and he does know about the others and knows the last AP that I worked with as well because of our jobs. 

Its nice to have a place to vent again...

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2013
Sun, 03-03-2013 - 1:51pm

Im super glad to see members coming back, I really liked this board and the people here. I used to lurk before the big changeover. I found MM in December and have been waiting for this board to come back around :) My "story" is in the thread titled his vacation...it was supposed to be a rant about NC but turned into a long story hahaha :) I look forward to the board being more active so I can have a PRODUCTIVE outlet to talk about this stuff. Sorry about the underline, it doesnt seem to want to turn off ...lol.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-12-2008
Sun, 03-03-2013 - 12:59pm

Hello!   I, also, have been MIA but checking back often to see if anything had changed.  I didn't post here much, but always like to read others' stories and also missed the support it gave with the changes.  I don't use my phone to log on, only my computer, so I haven't had any trouble (so far) logging in.  It's good to see things picking up again.  I have become online friends with another MAS poster and keeping in touch with her has helped a lot as well.  My EA is going into its 5th year (!!!) and we've had our trials - not the least of which was a long illness for him - but we've come thru it stronger than ever.  We only see each other about once every other month for about an hour even though we live only 10 min. from each other, but that is to keep us safe.  We email occasionally to keep in touch.  It is wonderful having this love in my life!  We are older than most on here (50s-60s).  :)  Let's have a roll call!!!