hello..kinda scared

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Registered: 09-11-2008
hello..kinda scared
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Mon, 04-06-2009 - 6:18pm

Ok this is my first time on here so i guess i will explain my story


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Registered: 04-05-2007
Mon, 04-06-2009 - 6:50pm

Hi and welcome to the board.

It sounds like you are very confused. I think your former neighbor is finally being fair to you. He was honest about the benefits thing and I have to say that I think he was telling you that you may have changed YOUR mind, but he doesn't want to play.

I know it is hard, but you would be best off to let him be for now.

~Shadowz
~Shadowz
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Registered: 10-26-2008
Mon, 04-06-2009 - 6:54pm
WELL, LET ME START BY SAYING I WAS INVOLVED IN A SIMILAR SITUATION.. AND SWEETIE IT DIDNT TURN OUT AS GOOD AS I HAD HOPED!!! MY ADVICE TO YOU WOULD BE TO MOVE ON, IM SURE YOUR A ATTRACTIVE WOMAN AND BESIDES YOU ALSO HAVE A LIL BABY TO CONCENTRATE YOUR TIME ON... SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY WHO WANNA BE THERE FOR YOU AS OPPOSED TO THIS YOUNG GUY WHO JUST WANTS TO SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER!!! NC ( NO CONTACT) IS YOUR BEST SOLUTION AND IF HE HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU LIKE HE SAYS HE DOES.. TRUST ME HE'LL CALL.. GOOD LUCK AND ((( HUGS))) HOPE YOU CAN RESOLVE THIS!!!!!
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Registered: 02-05-2009
Mon, 04-06-2009 - 10:19pm

Hi newmomma,

I agree with shadowz it doesn't sound like he wants to play... You're the one doing all the chasing and making this out to be more than it really is, in your mind. Little reality check is in order I think! Good luck and congratulations on your new baby!

hugs,

trixie



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