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Registered: 06-24-2009
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Wed, 06-24-2009 - 7:37pm

Hello all...


I'm a guy who has

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Registered: 06-18-2009
In reply to: putout
Thu, 06-25-2009 - 5:02pm

She's already made it clear to you that you're just a side dish. You are NOT her main course. She sounds more like a "cake-eater" and if you're not game, she probably won't have any qualms getting another guy to play the role.

Now, if that is not what you want anymore, then "putout" you have a problem. I also must remind you, that what you're doing (obsessing) over your A and AP is not fair to your W and family. You are depriving them of time you should be spending with them. So, deep introspection is now in order. If you're not happy in your M, do something to resolve the issues or else find a way to get out of it. Your W needs a H who will love just her.

Also, don't expect that just because your AP tells you she loves you she will leave her safe comfortable nest just for you. What I'm trying to say is. Don't pin your happiness on other people. You will most likely end up disappointed.

I wish you well.

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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: putout
Fri, 06-26-2009 - 9:59am
"If I end the relationship then our work environment will go in the toilet. " you might first want to get another job and then end the A as you do seem to be ready to end it and the only trouble is that you work together.she could harm your career ,her being the boss so getting another job first is important.
Many times we assume what the other thinks but are usually wrong.its best to ask and keep your ears/eyes open than to assume.
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Registered: 06-23-2009
In reply to: putout
Fri, 06-26-2009 - 10:20am
I agree with Goddess G3