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Wed, 04-08-2009 - 2:36pm
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Registered: 11-29-2006
In reply to: isheworthit
Wed, 04-08-2009 - 3:23pm
I can only speculate but, based on what you've posted, I would say it sounds like he's having second thoughts about what went on with you two. Whether or not he's truly leaving his wife, it sounds like he may regret what transpired and is trying to avoid you while he comes to grips with everything. Just my two cents...

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Registered: 03-17-2006
In reply to: isheworthit
Wed, 04-08-2009 - 3:43pm
see i wondered that but
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Registered: 11-29-2006
In reply to: isheworthit
Wed, 04-08-2009 - 4:00pm
That may just mean he needs a place to crash for the night, or he could still be interested but unsure of how to proceed from here. Maybe things with his wife aren't all as bad as he's said, and he's afraid of getting busted?

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Registered: 03-17-2006
In reply to: isheworthit
Wed, 04-08-2009 - 4:19pm

maybe but he has been talking about it for like 6 months and moved out min. a month ago. this sucks majorly.... guess time wll tell


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Registered: 11-29-2006
In reply to: isheworthit
Wed, 04-08-2009 - 4:45pm
Even if things were really bad in his marriage, the end of a marriage is hard to go through and very emotionally draining, which really puts him in a position of not being ready to be anything to anyone until he's gotten through that, and trying to have a relationship with him right now will most likely only bring you heartache. If you're truly interested in him, I'd give him space and time to get over this and figure things out before trying to be anything to him at all, but that's just my two cents.

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