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| Fri, 04-09-2004 - 10:35am |
I tried to seduce OM last night when his g/f was away on vacation by falling on him on his truck at the parking lot. He pushed me away. :( Can anybody give me tips as to how to seduce this man into an affair? We have been in an affair before. I am a beautiful girl with a model like figure. I have 38 C size boobs and a long curvy legs. I have been told I can be a Playboy Playmate. Isn't that enough to entice him?? What kind of guy is he who doesn't fall for my charms? TIA

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I've tried to stay out of this thread, but I don't think I can anymore.
Plymte, you say that you love him and that he's your soulmate. I'm sure you think that means that he'll be far happier with you in his life.
But part of being a soulmate involves trusting in the other person's judgment of what they need in their life. You want what's best for _him_. Sometimes, that's _not_ you.
Just as we have to give our children roots to ground them, we have to give them wings and let them fly. The same applies to our soulmates. The very _most_ I would do in your situation is to very quietly tell him that I care and that if he needs something, he can call me. After that, I'd step aside, knowing that my love provides part of the wings he can count on to soar.
IOW, if you really love him, you'll respect his desires and wish him the very, very best. It hurts. It's not fun. But it _is_ love in action.
Good luck.
Cazrida
"If you love something, set it free. If it loves you, it will come back to you."
Trying to get a man who has NO interest in you is the most self-destructive thing you can do to yourself.
Well, first of all, you're operating under at least two aliases here, and I believe I've seen you post with a third. Anyone who keeps so many names and faces in already private places isn't terribly trustworthy...
Second, your posts always push the envelope of content. This is not a "how to seduce" board. It is a board where people having affairs come to discuss the challenges and pain of those situations from both sides.
An internet troll, by definition, is someone who goes into a group/message board/mailing list/etc. and posts something intended to demean, inflame or otherwise counter the general feelings of most of the people there. Your posts have said over and over that you "have to have" this guy yet you haven't done *anything* with this person. You just lay bait out, "trolling" the waters to see if you get a reaction, if you get a hit. And I suppose to your credit you have inspired a good many of us to reply to you.
You have further downplayed the value of others' affairs by saying "I had an affair with him; he went to lunch and he told me some jokes." Other people here are dealing every day with emotional and physical two way relationships that have a real and definite beginning but not foregone conclusion.
I can't speak for everyone, but for me, this has been the most testing and trying period in my life. I've had lunch with someone I really wanted to date... a girl I'd tried to get interested for a year. She laughed at my jokes. She came to see my band. She seemed very interested. She still wouldn't go out with me. And I'm telling you, that disappointment and difficulty PALES in comparison to what I've been through this past year, and I know that the OW has gone through much more.
So with all due respect... save it. You are a real person with real issues, that much is true. But they are not the ones you profess to share with us. Your real issue is whatever causes you to troll a board of sincere and open people in order to get attention for what may or may not be a real situation but is most definitely not an affair.
rain
Good luck in life.
sujata
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