Help!!!

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Registered: 12-07-2003
Help!!!
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Thu, 02-12-2004 - 11:45pm
I just don't know what to do. I mean, from what I hear from other neighbors, his W still treats him like crap in front of everyone. But I also know we successfully diverted her from the attention of he and I, since his directly next door neighbor is a single guy, and MM's W thinks this guy and I are together. We are very good friends, but "friend" saw MM and I cuddling a few weeks ago, and seems okay with it all. But now, I think that MM thinks me and "friend" are together, which we aren't. I haven't even talked to MM in almost a week. My first instinct is to call him and tell him I miss him, but part of me realizes this is my opportunity to get out of what can only be a bad situation. The biggest problem is, I think I've fallen 100% in love with MM and would hate it if he's sitting there thinking I'm happily involved with someone else, and give up on me, when all I really want is him, part time, full time, whatever. Should I tell him that's what I'm dealing with, or take the opportunity to get away from him before I ruin his family (unhappy as it may be right now!)???? I am just so confused. I mean, I miss him sooo much it physically hurts me right now!! Help!
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Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: jbm2993
Thu, 02-12-2004 - 11:56pm
If you like him a whole lot then maybe you want to do what is good for him, not you.

Jmho

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Registered: 01-05-2004
In reply to: jbm2993
Fri, 02-13-2004 - 1:20pm
If you love him enought to be thinking this seriously aobut putting his relaitonship before your feelings that is truly honorable. But Iwould say tell hom how you're feeling (if you can find the chance) tell him you are thinking this way and see what he has to say. But hell I'm really new at this, so I am no expert. Good Luck!