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| Sat, 02-07-2004 - 9:20pm |
I have been married for 7 years. My husband and I don't have an emotionally intimate relationship. I have always been faithful to my husband, although I am miserable in this relationship. (And he knows I'm not happy and hasn't tried to help make things better.) We are not friends, we just co-exist. Anyway, I have a male friend that I have known for over a year and he has been a wonderful friend. We have never had sex. We haven't even touched, but I find myself falling for him. Recently he admitted that he has feelings for me. I am seriously thinking about leaving my husband for him. What should I do?

You are falling for the OM because because he is filling a void you are missing right now , even if it isn't sex yet . He is giving you an attention you are missing , and it feels good .
BUT is this OM really the type of man you want to have. Picture what type of man you want to be with . What type of R do you want to have with the man your with . Is this OM that type ?? Do you really know this other man that well ? Do you have things in common ? if you answer yes to these questions ok maybe you are falling for him .....but be careful many confuse , love with lust and love with need .
Maybe he is saying he has feelings for you to get you into the bed room , maybe he does really feel something for you . you never know , only time will tell .
I hope what I say helps you a bit , good luck ,
xoxo ViperDiva
I agree with the last poster completely.
I would only add that if you cannot fix things with your husband and leave then do not rush into a relationship, get your life in order as a single woman take time to clear your head of all the emotions and confusion, then if you still want to take your time and realy get to know OM tell you have a complete picture of him, you may find he is not all you really want in a man but it is hard to really judge well when in your preasent postion.
GOOD LUCK
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