Help AGAIN.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-21-2003
Help AGAIN.....
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Wed, 04-21-2004 - 10:33am
Posted yesterday about OM leaving his wife. It scares me. Anyways we had a heart to heart yesterday and now today he hasn't called yet. He always calls in the morning. I'm so sad. I knew I should never have opened my big mouth. Why can't I ever just be the supporting girlfriend? I just want to go home and crawl into bed and wait for him to call. I've been on the verge of tears for hours.

Why am I so weak? He has my heart in his hands. How do I make it through this day at work?

Thanks
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2004
Wed, 04-21-2004 - 12:30pm
Honey, you make it through by taking your heart back and keeping it cupped in your own hands. It's a gift you give to someone to borrow, not something you give up completely. He's going through such a difficult emotional time. Perhaps if you're just honest with him -- tell him you were scared and unsettled. You want to be there for him because you care about him, no pressure. He's got to be needing you now more than ever. That heart that you need to keep in your own hands? It will lead you to the right words with MM. Just trust yourself. I'm sending a hug your way to keep you warm until MM calls...
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2004
Wed, 04-21-2004 - 12:35pm

Very good advice and well said, Saturday.

cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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