He might not say anything. Most people will mull it over and decide if it was something innocent, they'll look like a suspicious fool bringing it up, and if it was not innocent, they don't want to be the one to say anything anyway. They'd rather be in the dark.
If he does bring it up I can't think of a single thing I could say and be believed. That would be a tough one!
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
Don't know what to tell you as far as an alibi goes, but will tell you that having your AP come over to the house you share with your husband is a BAD idea. Bad, bad, bad. Did I say bad? Again...BAD! You are playing with fire if you continue to do that. You will get burnt. If you're going to have an affair, keep it away from the home front. It's dangerous, sloppy and begging to be caught. Not to mention....and not judging YOU, but just the act....a little icky, really. Choose another place to rendezvous, if you must.
Please take sillyme's advice...remove the trysts with AP from your house and his, if you go there.
YOU WILL GET CAUGHT!
My AP's W works out of town, about an hour commute; so his home was always "safe" and definitely comfortable til the day his 17 yr old step-daughter decided to skip school and caught me on top of AP and we were both full monty.
Please rethink your actions...esp if you care for AP in more than just a sexual way. You are setting him up to make the choice that could break your heart. Your H and AP's spouse (if he has one) had no hand in chosing the route you all have taken, so spare them the humility of your actions and take it elsewhere.
He might not say anything. Most people will mull it over and decide if it was something innocent, they'll look like a suspicious fool bringing it up, and if it was not innocent, they don't want to be the one to say anything anyway. They'd rather be in the dark.
If he does bring it up I can't think of a single thing I could say and be believed. That would be a tough one!
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
You've got a lot of choices. I
I bet the neighbor will keep his mouth shut. He's probably wondering who the mystery person is,
Please take sillyme's advice...remove the trysts with AP from your house and his, if you go there.
YOU WILL GET CAUGHT!
My AP's W works out of town, about an hour commute; so his home was always "safe" and definitely comfortable til the day his 17 yr old step-daughter decided to skip school and caught me on top of AP and we were both full monty.
Please rethink your actions...esp if you care for AP in more than just a sexual way. You are setting him up to make the choice that could break your heart. Your H and AP's spouse (if he has one) had no hand in chosing the route you all have taken, so spare them the humility of your actions and take it elsewhere.
I doubt the neighbor will say anything.