Help! I might be PREGNANT who's baby?

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Help! I might be PREGNANT who's baby?
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Fri, 03-28-2003 - 5:25pm
Help please. I just took a hpt that came out light positive. My experence with hpt have always been good so i'm pretty sure its correct. Anyhow, the man i'am or should say was

sleeping with (only twice with condems)knows. We slept together during what I figure would be my fertile week but since having my son 11 months ago my periods were just starting to get normal. My husband and I had sex probably 3x's this past month and we use the withdrawl method and it has worked for us for more then 5yrs. I don't recall having sex with my dh during my fertile week, but like I said my periods are just getting normal. Does anyone know of a dna prenantal test i can do? Everything i've read says you can't really do that till your at least 12-13 weeks! I need to know now. I'am so scared. Obviously the other man thinks abortion and I do to at an extent. Even if I wasnt having an affair I just lost the baby weight and then some, am going to college, and were trying to pay of debt and buy a house. Between a 11 month old, working full time, school I already feel stressed. Please any help. I never thought this would happen. It figures this would happen. Is the man I used protection with or my hubby that pulls out (thats worked for yrs thank you.) Thanks for listening.

Jenn.:(
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 03-28-2003 - 5:40pm
First you need to calm down and breathe. I know you're scared to death right now. Take a few deep breaths and think.Go see the doctor first and see what they say. ....hooked
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 03-28-2003 - 5:52pm
Calm down sweetie. I think you should consult a doctor before you make any decision whether is it for abortion or keeping the baby. The doc can also point you towards any pre-natal dna tests. I agree with what hooked said in her post. HUGS to you.... Hope everything turns out OK for you.
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sun, 03-30-2003 - 1:46pm
Jenn....not an easy road...and i'm not sure if there are any tests that can be done...i would contact your OB and see if there is a way to find out....so you can make the right decision for you....

But i will tell you one thing....once having a child...we tend to be more fertile....i know because my first child took fertility procedures to have..and i became pregnant with my second child when my first was only 8 months old....with no help from the docs at all....so even if you used the withdrawal before....you could still get pregnant from that.....

Good luck...

molly