Help I need advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2003
Help I need advice
2
Tue, 10-07-2003 - 8:42pm
My husband had an affair with my supposed best friend and I just found out. I am scared, hurt and having a very difficult time getting on with my day to day activities. He promised to sever all contact with her and she is still calling my house. My husband has accussed me of being manipulative around my children because I cry and it is just because I want to desperately to save my marriage of 14 years.

He has recently went out and bought new clothes, watch, shoes etc and started going out two or more times a week with a new guy who is divorced. Is it worth saving? Does it sound like a midlife crisis. He is 48 years old and I don't want to loose him however it appears that I already have.

All of my so called friend knew about the affair and no one told me. So I have distanced myself from everyone and I am feeling very lonely, scared and disgustingly unattractive. Please help me to survive!!!!!!! I need the support. Thanks.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 10-07-2003 - 8:55pm
hello scared l don' think right board for you dear this board women who married and single who have married men, you should look at bss board here on ivillage they help over better those men women going through what going right .good luck
kimmy
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 10-07-2003 - 11:21pm
There is a better place for you to get support... please post your story on this board:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rladultery

Thanks for posting and I am sorry for your pain.