help, i slept with my co-worker

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Registered: 11-26-2007
help, i slept with my co-worker
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Wed, 11-26-2008 - 7:14pm

Hello everyone, I used to be a an active user of this board, then my AP and I ended up our relationship and I decided to focus on my life. Untill couple days ago....My co-worker and I decided to celebrate something, and couple drinks later, we ended up being close. He mentionned it was his first time "doing it", so I think he was refering on cheating on his wife. He is very handsome, goal oriented and a good friend and co-worker. I never thought this will happen between us....We both have full time jobs at different companies and only meet once a week at our part time job. The day, we were close he told me he was attracted to me but never thought it would do it, we had a very passionate sex and everything happened very fast, like we could not wait to be close. He said he

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Thu, 11-27-2008 - 1:03pm

" Will I loose him as a friend?" you have already crossed the line of friendship unless its a FWB situation.Are you S? My A started something like this.Alcohol, office party,late night , boom and bang! we did it with our hands and mouth ,behind the pillars! it was sooo passionate and becuase of the location and knowing that co workers were just around ,made it more exciting.we ended up finishing at my house.

now he is planning on leaving his m to be with me.

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Registered: 11-26-2007
Thu, 11-27-2008 - 5:28pm

Hey Lovingdoll, you are right, as much as I hate to agree to that, I have lost him as a friend. We are both M, neither of us is planning on leaving our partners. He actually said it right after it that he feels safe and we can both return home to our partners without any sense of guilt. Have you felt something for your co-worker prior to being close with him or you could not predict it? I never liked him more than a friend, then after working with him one day ( we only work together once a week), I had a dream that he kissed me and gave me a gift. Since then, I had very different feelings towards him and that's where it took us. I was not the one who made the first move, but was very